From Drew.
Every now and then we fall on our friends and family
to help us get through the difficulties of life. We may rely on them for
financial help, education, health and/or other essential areas of life.
I used to think people only help the people they
know. The person may be a high school friend, or even that guy in the neighborhood
you may never have spoken with, yet helping such a person would seems much
better, simply because of the fact that you are familiar with the person to
some extent.
When I went to Takoradi for my National Service, I
was struck with much surprise in a mesmerizing way, by how the people, whom I
have never met before, were enthusiastic to helping me find a place to stay or
perch for a night.
The people I met there were really kind and very
welcoming. I was drawn to tears at a point when somebody offered me his three
bedroom house for free! Nobody was staying in the house, so he wanted me to stay
there for at least two weeks while I look for my own place (he was helping me
find a place).
I never had to move to the three bed room apartment
because an old friend of mine got me another place. Once again my host did not
know me.
I am surprised by all these because I was wondering
how I could invite a total stranger to my dad’s house in Accra to sleep over.
My contemplation was not about whether my dad would allow it or not. It was
more about whether I would opt to do that favor in the first place.
I want to believe that I am a kind person but I do
not think I could do what those people in Takoradi did. I think one needs a
certain divine inspiration of some sort to be able to be that kind.
They have inspired me to help people more. I
realized I don’t have to always be in my comfort zone before I can help someone
in need. They opened up their homes for me and they demanded nothing from me, nothing,
except of course, to be a good person just so they don’t regret showing an act
of kindness to a total stranger.
Prior to my National Service I had given up on the
idea of helping people because some people (most of whom are members of my
extended family) I had helped had disappointed and disgraced me in the end
which sometimes made me curse myself for helping them.
I have a different perception for people now. I have
got a renewed Do-Good-Spirit. It doesn’t matter whether or not I know the
person who needs my help all I can do is help when I’m approached.
This will be one of many positive things that I can
attribute to my national service with Graphic Communications Group Limited.
Thank you to Mr. Agyekum, Cyrus, Ralph, Micheal and
my own aunt; Aunty Efuah and her family for their warm welcome to the oil city
of Ghana!
When someone calls on you for help, all you need to
do is to try and help. You may not be able to achieve the desired results in
the end, what is most important is that you at least tried.
PS: Please make sure you are not awarded one of
these.
Have
you been on the receiving end of some amazing act of kindness? Tell us about
it!
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